That moment when you have a sex dream with a spirit but what made it stand out to me as a positive thing for the both of us would sound like I’m using her to brag how inclusive I am, not to mention the topic of sex with spirits/demons is all over my dash today and it will just sound like I’m trying to sit at the cool kids’ table.
So I’m just going to reiterate that pausing to make sure your partner (physical, spiritual, and/or otherwise) is okay is a good thing to do and reassures them that you are not treating them as a wanking tool. It doesn’t dampen the mood at all.